Hypothesis: Sometimes it's okay to be upset. Emotions are good. Sometimes (a lot of times) emotions don't have much to do with you.
Test: Set pre-judgments aside to listen instead of jumping to conclusions because of said emotion. Patience. Compassion. Loving instead of judging.
Conclusion: Listening is usually the best solution. Love can solve the problem.
Have I mentioned I have the best husband? Because I do.